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March 18, 2004
Shoeless:
Once Bitten, Twice Shy - The etiquette of approaching celebrities.
Dear Pru, What do you think about people who invite you over for a social gathering, only to get you to their doorstep and politely direct you to take off your shoeswithout explanationbut presumably so you won't soil their carpet or scratch their floors? Is this acceptable behavior? I personally find it offensive and ridiculous. Either buy carpet that will stand up to foot traffic, or don't invite people over. This has happened to me several times (different hosts). I am uncomfortable barefooted on cold hard-wood floors, and I don't particularly care for my unattractive feet being exposed without warning. Believe me, I am not unsympathetic to their plight, as I myself have light-colored carpet. (I just get regular carpet cleanings and spot-clean if I do get a stain.) Is it too much to ask to keep your shoes on when socializing, or should I suck it up and resign myself to carrying a pair of tube socks in my car for situations like this?Cold Feet in Houston
Dear Cold,
Prudie can think of two occasions when "remove your shoes" is a proper "request": If the party is in Japan or the hosts are offering pedicures. Asking guests to check their shoes at the door is not the most hospitable or gracious way to entertain. However, if the rest of the party components seem worthwhile (the other guests, ambience), give the crazy-clean hosts the benefit of the doubt and doff your shoes. Carrying tube sox is actually a good idea, assuming you wish to socialize with such fussy people. Pragmatically, your decision is between tube sox and declining the invitation.Prudie, optionally
See, we keep our Apartment shoe-free. I have no idea how to politly explain this to guests. Aparently I am rude to even try...
Posted by Andrew at March 18, 2004 11:10 AM
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